March 14 St. Matilda
Patron Saint of Parents With Disappointing Children
Poor Matilda. She had the misfortune of marrying someone she loved in the 900s. Her true love happened to be the Duke of Saxony who became King of Germany upon his father’s death. King Otto loved and admired his wife and by all accounts, the equal partners were good and just rulers. St. Matilda was a devout Christian and took over the social justice and homeland concerns of Germany while her husband managed the wars and money. They had five children whom they raised in the faith.
Upon her husband’s death, St. Matilda’s oldest son, Otto II took the crown. He continued to co-rule with mother until his younger brother Henry threw a fit. According to him, he should be, at the least, co-ruler, if not king. After raising an army and attempting an overthrow, St. Matilda at last convinced the two to work together and that she would step down. She began a second career establishing monasteries and convents with the family money. The two boys, doing as their mother wished, worked together to have her stripped of her money and rights. She was banished to her childhood home to live the rest of her life in relative poverty.
But her boys were not done. Her third son, Bruno, having become a priest, had become of of the most powerful men in the Northern European church. As bishop of Cologne, he had the power to raise armies, strike coins and levy taxes. As a duke he had the power of the king behind his actions. When he got wind of his brother Henry’s dealings with dissatisfied nobility, he stepped in and harshly reprimanded his brother. This led to Henry’s second attempt to take over the crown. By the end of the second attempt, Otto had become a hardened, cynical leader who solidified the Ottoman Empire. Henry was broken and physically ailing, dying shortly after the failed attempt. And Bruno was the velvet glove behind Otto’s iron fist, establishing the church as a powerful and feared entity in Northern Europe.
I think St. Matilda would have been happier if her children had chosen to become simple sheep herders.